I’m about to expose the biggest LIE
you can tell yourself about meeting
women.
Seriously, this lie can keep you from
ever achieving the kind of turbo-charged
social life you dream of.
You ready for it?
Okay, here it comes…
The biggest lie you can tell yourself is
that you need to have certain things in
place BEFORE you meet women.
You know what I mean.
“All I need to do is lose 50 pounds, THEN
I’ll go out and meet some girls.”
“If I can just hold off until I get a nice
new car, THEN I’ll be able to meet women.”
“I can’t meet any girls until I finish
school.”
“I don’t want to meet any women until I
make more money…”
There are a million and one different
examples of excuses we make NOT to meet
women.
This is because we think we need to
accomplish something before women will
be attracted to us…
OR
Because we don’t feel we’ll personally
be ready to handle women until we get
these things sorted out.
But this is all a MYTH.
All you’re doing when you think this way
is giving you an excuse to STAY LONELY.
You’re giving yourself an “out.”
What happens when you make yourself think
you need to “achieve” something before
you need to meet women is this…
You’re Changing The Focus Of Your Attention!
Instead of focusing on what you really want
(women), you focus on distractions and
obstacles to getting what you want.
And when you do that, you never actually
GET what you want.
Make sense?
So you need to STOP thinking that getting
a girlfriend, or a wife, or a beautiful
woman to take part in your life actually
REQUIRES anything but a willingness to
go out and meet them.
When you sit down and say to yourself:
“I don’t want to wait anymore. I’m going
to go out and meet a girl RIGHT NOW!” Your
focusing on a goal.
ANd when you focus on a goal, you can
ACHIEVE that goal.
Period.
So don’t let yourself create distractions
from what you really want.
After all — YOU WANT TO MEET WOMEN!!!
And if you want the ultimate power and choice
to meet any woman you desire and go out
on more dates than you ever thought possible…
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John Boy
Have you ever liked a girl, but she never
knew you existed?
Tell me if this sounds familiar…
You see an absolutely drop-dead gorgeous
girl you are instantly attracted to.
You keep your distance, admiring her from
afar, imagining all the wonderful times the
two of you could have together.
In the blink of an eye, its as though you and
her have lived a lifetime together, and you’re
convinced “she’s the one.”
But for some reason, no matter how much
you send out your “vibe,” she doesn’t seem
to notice you!
And whenever you talk to her (should you
work up the courage), you can’t tell if she’s
feeling the same way about you that you
are about her.
You WANT to ask her out, you WANT her
to like you…
But you just don’t know how.
Welcome to hell, my friend – the hell of not
being noticed by the girl of your dreams.
Don’t fear, we’ve all been there before. The
trick here to find romantic success is actually
very simple…
See, most guys in this situation will do one
of two things:
1. They’ll sit around and wait for the girl to
ask them out – or show some sign that she
feels the same way as they do.
2. They’ll jump the gun and ask her out before
they establish any type of connection with
her.
Either way, these plans of action NEVER work.
Girls WILL NOT ask you out. They’re just not
used to it. The burden is on the guy to take
the initiative.
Girls WILL NOT usually accept your offer to go
out on a date if you haven’t tried to generate
attraction, interest, or rapport with her before-hand.
Understand – just because you feel an emotion,
and you have already convinced yourself that
you’re meant for this girl, DOES NOT mean she
has experienced those same emotions.
Your job, as a man, is to help the girl of your
desires to feel those emotions!
Otherwise, you won’t succeed in getting her to
notice you, let alone GO OUT with you.
If you really want to get success with girls, and get
them to notice you, here’s what you have to do:
1. Approach the girl the RIGHT way.
The first step in getting any girl to notice you is to
meet them.
You actually have to WALK UP to the girl, look her
in the eyes, and engage her in a conversation.
And you have to do so in a way that is not annoying,
imposing, or needy!
2. Create feelings of connection.
This is what some might call that “click” or “chemistry.”
Creating feelings of connection are all about fostering
feelings of trust and comfort with women.
Too often, guys make the mistake of being a “gender
neutral” friend.
But creating connections is about finding similarities
between you and the girl, so the two of you feel some
sort of bond.
3. Create feelings of sexual tension.
This is also known as “flirting.”
Most guys don’t bother to do this, and because of that,
they get stuck as “just the friend.”
You HAVE to know how to flirt with the girl if you
want her to start seeing you as a possible romantic
interest.
You have to know how to stir within her those feelings
of desire and attraction!
Otherwise, you’re just another one of those “nice guys”
she knows in her life.
if you can do all three of these things, you can get
any girl you like to notice you.
Oct 24th, 2008
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