Dear Sir,

Please help:

I tried a lot of times to approach her,
after some time they both start talking
and I just sit staring at them.

There is only one month left for this
semester to end and after that I will
loose her if I don’t do anything but
what can I do????????

I have asked many people and tried many
things but nothing seems to work. I just
don’t know what to do??????

–A Frustrated Student

***MY RESPONSE***

Take heart, Frustrated Student, class
is in session!

I, and many other men, have been in
similar situations many, many times.

Let me make one thing clear right now
that you must understand before you
go out trying to meet women:

WOMEN OF BEAUTY ARE NEVER ALONE!!!!!

You heard me right.  Pretty girls have a
very high social status.

They are almost always surrounded by people,
be they girlfriends, boyfriends, male “nice
guy” friends, brothers, sisters, parents -
whatever!  They will always be in groups
of people.

It is very rare to see beautiful women alone.
And when they are alone, they’re usually
waiting for someone!

The common term I refer to people who like
to hang around with beautiful women is:
OBSTACLES.

If you imagine you’re on a race track, and
at the end of the track is this girl you want
to meet, all the rocks, hurdles, holes, and
booby traps between you and her are OBSTACLES
that can ruin your chances of meeting her.

But there is a way to navigate that minefield
and avoid all these obstacles!  That way is
called:

GROUP THEORY is a system by which you actually
address the girl’s friends instead of trying
to ignore them.

Through group theory, you win over the girls
peer group and turn them into YOUR support
group.

Here’s how it works…

The girl you want to meet is always with her
friend, right?  And you’re worried that you
can’t approach the girl you like because
the friend will interfere in some way.

So what you do is forget about the girl you
like, and approach her friend first!

That’s right…

YOU FORGET ABOUT THE GIRL YOU LIKE AND
APPROACH HER FRIEND FIRST!

Now, this doesn’t mean you’re going to try
and pick-up the obstacle instead of the
girl you really like.

It just means you’re going to overcome that
obstacle before you reach for your prize!

Remember:  You must disarm a land mine
before you step on it!

You do this by acting disinterested in the
girl you’re really interested in, and focus
on winning over the girl you don’t really
care for!

Then, once you’ve won over the obstacle, you
ask if you can “borrow” her friend for a minute
because you’ve been neglecting her.

Once her friend gives you approval to talk to
her alone, guess what?  You’ve just gotten her
STAMP of approval!

This means that the girl you like has no reason
NOT to talk to you!

Then, you pull her off to the side, and work
your magic one-on-one.

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